Don’t worry, there is a reason behind this. Girlfriend’s change because of some reason and you have to find out why and all by yourself. Remember, she is upset, and she is not going to tell you.
Let’s get to the basics first – what happened?
Nothing?
Maybe you think so, she doesn’t think that way. Think again?
Did you miss calling her? Are you not meeting her as much as you would earlier?
Was it a small argument?
Something must have happened, and she is upset.
Your first task is to find THIS reason.
Okay, now you have a reason – you can think about how to deal with this. Suppose you still do not have the reason?
It means her mind has changed towards you. It might be because she is bored, she doesn’t enjoy your company any more or she is someone else in her life.
Sounds harsh, but believe me, it’s a possibility.
Nah..don’t worry, we will check out a few signs.
Signs She Changed Her Mind About You
- Doesn’t Show That Happiness to Talk to You
- She isn’t eager to find Out More About You
- She says she is busy.
- She talks about getting in touch later.
- She prefers to be with her friends more.
- She isn’t sharing much about herself.
- Online but Not Talking to you
If you are seeing any three or more signs like these in your girlfriend, it clearly means she is not happy about you. She needs a change and probably she changed her mind about you.
Now that you know something has happened, you would definitely like to get things back to normal. Otherwise you wouldn’t be reading it.
So, how to get about it?
Let your Ego Go:
If you want to fix your relationship and give it a try, do not let your ego take over. Ego can destroy relationships forever.
If you have been waiting for her to call you or text you first – do not wait. You text her or call her. Take the first step. There is no harm. It is about valuing the relationship and not spoiling it.
So, pick up the phone and text her.
What if she doesn’t respond – right?
Doesn’t matter. She is angry and upset – she might choose not to respond at the first instance. Keep trying.
Try 2- 3 days at a stretch. Check her reaction.
What if she doesn’t respond even then?
Try some other way – if she is close by, visit her. You can try to reach her or pass your message through friends. See how she reacts.
If she still makes it clear, she doesn’t want to be in touch, you can give up. But, at least you will not regret that you haven’t tried.
Talk to Her:
Now, let’s consider that you could communicate with her. You have to be patient and hear her out.
Ask her –
- Is everything okay with her
- If she is upset about anything
- If something is bothering her or she would like to speak about
Remember that you wouldn’t blame her or argue with her even if you do not understand the reasons. If you want to be in a relationship, mutual understanding is very important. The best way to find a solution is to talk because miscommunication can ruin relationships.
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What to do if she doesn’t want to talk to you and tells you that?
Remember, you cannot have a healthy forced relationship. So,
- Do not bother her by bombarding her with messages.
- Give her time and the space she needs.
- Do not give her ultimatums or threats.
- Tell her if she is happy without talking, you would respect that.
- Stop stalking her because it will make you more uncomfortable
Many youngsters get upset about the fact that their partner is ignoring for no reason. Has it ever happened to you and asked yourself –
Why is my girlfriend ignoring me?
There might be many reasons but the most common might be.
1) She wants you to feel something
2) Angry with you
3) She just wants time for herself
4) She isn’t feeling good
5) It’s just a phase and she will be fine
6) She is interested in someone else
7) It has nothing to do with you.
Why Has my Girlfriend stopped talking to me?
She might be upset or angry with you. She might be going through some personal problems and you are not caring to ask.
Why a girl suddenly stopped talking?
It might be due to your behavior or because she doesn’t want to be a part of the relationship. If a woman wants to move away from a relationship she stops talking.
Is it normal for your girlfriend to not talk to you for days?
It is not normal if you have a habit of talking several times in a day. If she suddenly stops talking maybe she is angry. But it might also be that she is busy, or she is upset due to some other reason and doesn’t feel like talking. You don’t have to panic.
What to do when a girl suddenly stops texting you?
- Find out if all is well with her.
- Ask her if is upset with you.
- Do not bombard her with texts.
- Don’t be impatient.
- Contact her in other way.
Change your Behaviour and Improve yourself:
Why not try and change yourself before you blame her. If you are in a healthy relationship, you will always be aware what she doesn’t like. Why not try and change yourself a bit so that the relationship improves.
However, this doesn’t mean, you will always have to give in to what she wants. It is just about helping to make a relationship work.
Try to do things that make your girlfriend happy.
Women love attention and the best way to ensure that she is always by your side is to give her time and respect. No relationship works without respect.
